Scheduling Intimacy?

This is something that I heard this afternoon on CBC Radio…

An author is pushing the idea that couples should schedule intimacy between themselves…


I can just see how this will work out…

I can fit in a kiss between 9:10 and 9:15 this morning with a hug at 10:15 and then a snuggle at 3:45 this afternoon. How does that fix with you?

I think I can squeeze you in there honey. What about something later tonight say around 11?

Let’s just take all of the spur of the moment stuff right out of the relationship why don’t we?

I know that life is a rush these days, but actually having to put into your daytimer or whatever the reminder to have some time for the people in your life?

Seems to me that if you have to do something like that you aren’t in the relationship to begin with…

Anyway… Minor rant for a Monday…


1 comment

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    • James on April 27, 2009 at 3:24 pm

    Well, I am not sure I go for scheduling every bit of intimacy but, with all due respect, Majesty, my Beloved and I have had a regular “date night” on Fridays for years. The reality is that, between work and families, if we did not have a night that was announced to be off-limits to everyone else, we would go weeks at a time without spending time just together.

    Now, this is not to say there isn’t all sorts of grabbing, kissing, huggling, and quick, spontaneous necking going on the rest of the time, but that’s just because my Beloved is absolutely irresistable and very tolerant of me. :mrgreen:

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